For whatever reason after I finally posted, A Mother in Warfare, I could not write any new words. Not really. I read through old work and edited an old poem making it better. But truly new words? New ideas? Not a thing. Perhaps due to a few things. Who can really tell? I have my suspicions. No one thing the sole culprit.
You can push through writer’s block fine enough, but this particular time (these days in general) didn’t seem like a time for pushing through. It seemed like a time for waiting. Just letting that absence of creativity lie dormant. Of not forcing beautiful words on a page. I had none, anyway. I was blank space.
But then my husband and I were in the garden with our son. He turns two this August and I’m already getting excited. I’ve been thinking of his birthday since I was early pregnant with our daughter. Birthdays light up my soul, I suppose.
And his is so special.
I can remember the anticipation I felt leading up to his birth. I can feel those long days of labor. Picking zinnias before going to the hospital (the first time, heheee). The laughter. How he felt on my chest in those first minutes. Bringing him home to sunflowers and our first walks in the garden holding him tiny in my arms. I was thrown into this kind of magic that hasn’t stopped. I’m getting carried away. Like I said. . .birthdays.
And more specifically the birthdays belonging to my children.
Well, anyhow, he’s almost two and that evening in the garden, we picked him a snow pea and showed him he could actually eat it. I hope I never forget his face. It will always be one of the sweetest things I’ve experienced earth-side. A moment so small and so big and beautiful. . .his realization that some things grown in the garden can be picked and eaten too.
And for me? I felt I could write again after that. I didn’t know what the words would be just then, but they would come soon. The following poem feels like a way forward after my latest, Even Mothers, Even Here.
So here we go. . .the words that came that evening after June snow peas in the garden.
Snow in June
after too much death
much too soon,
after wrestling with the words,
after all the words ran out,
after the Psalms ran on audio,
after nursing my daughter in
the dark of morning
afraid of lights out, life out,
of bad news down like
I’m in the garden with my son.
he’s standing, loved, between us.
and he’s full smiling, hint of grinning,
we’re picking snow peas in June.
now height of morning light in evening
watching him taste and see
the fruit of our hope,
that this fruit even exists
that it can be for him. . .
not untouchable like the roses
not to save like the daisies
not to spare like the pink blossoms
. . .but to pick and eat,
its beauty in the tasting
its joy in the process.
eyes alight, its snow in June,
us right there with him.
fresh delight and nightfall soon. . .
life here is not only madness.
for I have also tasted,
and I have also seen.
the Lord, indeed, is good.
I’m not sure what I’ll write next or when. . .?
I’m in the days I can’t really explain.
I can imagine a mixture of postpartum, mothering two, shifting into a new camp season, wrestling with my fear of loss, trusting God with my whole being, and experiencing my faith deepen has life demanding my full attention without margin or capacity to write. I may be a solid two months past giving birth to my bright-eyed, wonderful Heidi, but I’m only a solid two months past. So there’s a lot still happening.
But Shasta is on his Y Bike in the bathroom batting his toddler hand at the dust particles floating in the morning sunlight.
And Psalms 16:8-9 upholds me in the night.
I have set the LORD always before me; because he is at my right hand, I shall not be shaken. Therefore my heart is glad, and my whole being rejoices; my flesh also dwells secure.
Heidi smiles at the drop of a hat.
Words will come again. The days sure do. I’m grateful for every single one.
So while I wait, grow, heal, learn, deepen and surrender, I think I’ll enjoy another snow pea in the garden this evening.